This might seem kinda weird, But I feel like I need to talk to someone but its kinda late.
So I worked all day today!, and I have worked ALL week long.( which is not the problem)
the problem is that I was really looking forward to spending some time with Bri when I got home from work... But, I called him at lunch to see how his day with the kids was going and He tells me he is grocery shopping. I'm thinking "oh my gosh I have the best husband ever, he is doing the grocery shopping!!!" So I ask what he got. He said " oh I invited my friends over for a BBQ and then we are going to play pool in Provo, so I just got some stuff for that" That kinda bothered me. I know it should not because he never gets to see his friends these days. But my feelings were just a little hurt. Here is why, I was invited to go out with the girls from the neighborhood last night( a movie then to pick up Twilight) But I had to work so the girls all changed the time so I could come at 10:00pm when I got off work, I then told them I should probably go home because I hadnt seen my husband and I had to get up and go to work the next morning. So I missed going out so that I wouldnt hurt Bri, But we didnt even have time together by the time I got home and had dinner. so I was just really bumbed that he thought of himself when I thought of Him!. But I'm Not upset that he is getting some time out to just himself.
I dont know, maybe I'm just tierd and a little looney?
Do you think I'm wrong?
Revisiting 2012
7 years ago
2 comments:
First of all, where are you working? I didn't even know you had gotten a job. Anyways, I can totally relate. This has happened several times to me. It's gotten easier over the years as I realized how much he does for our family and how little he gets to go out with his friends, but it can still be hard. Try not to get your fellings hurt (I know easier said than done), but he didn't do it to hurt your feelings. It took me a long time to figure that one out. My advise would be to enjoy the time you have together, make sure you get some time for yourself and enjoy the time he's out. Do things you can't usually get done when he's there (carfts, reading, whatever you're into). I hope this all made sense. I know I'm not Em, but if you ever need a friend you know where to find me =)
Robert and I have to work really hard on the scheduling stuff too--especially since Robert likes to do SO MUCH. It really is annoying when he doesn't think of how things might affect me. . . even if it is a service to others. . . and ESPECIALLY when I gave up something I wanted to do. At least it doesn't happen everyday--right? I know I've done it to him, too. I hope you get to spend some good time with him again soon.
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